LISTENING

I learned how important to listen in human relations and communication lesson. We must not judge people without listening. For example your boyfriend did not give flowers in Valentine’s Day or Birthday. You can not get angry. You must ask his why you did not receive flowers. We must learn to understand each other to listen. We usually do without listening to extrajudicial killings. If your boyfriend gives you flowers, throw it away would not care about it again he does not want to receive flowers. We must attend our behaviors. There is a reason for everything but often does not notice it. If our expectations are not realized, we get nervous or angry. I notice that I often do similarly. My boyfriend immediately does not respond to my messages or not call and I would sulk and get angry but I know that you are working. I react, so I do not realize my expectations. For example we will meet on Friday and he will not come because he will need to go somewhere else, and I am angry, crying because my expectation did not come true. I will now behave more carefully, I will listen to him and I will behave better understanding. Finally I also apologize to him because of my behaviors.