COUNSELING

I heart that people provide psychological counseling at school and I wanted to take advantages. After I applied I learned that fourth grade students who study guidance and psychological counseling give consultancy. This is a practical lesson in fourth grade that I learned to do it. They gain experience and it will benefit them in future.
School is also taught me such a practical lesson would be very happy because it is really important to gain experience. I see the benefits of receiving counseling. I did not talk with anyone expect my school’s guidance counselor up to this time and I talked with guidance counselor not enough for me. I feel I'm getting counseling would be helpful to me. Counseling gains awareness for me. It helps me to realize my negative thoughts and it is other positive affects. Now I am learning and observing how to act and that I need to talk. This situation is benefit for me because in fourth grade I will not have difficulty.

LISTENING

I learned how important to listen in human relations and communication lesson. We must not judge people without listening. For example your boyfriend did not give flowers in Valentine’s Day or Birthday. You can not get angry. You must ask his why you did not receive flowers. We must learn to understand each other to listen. We usually do without listening to extrajudicial killings. If your boyfriend gives you flowers, throw it away would not care about it again he does not want to receive flowers. We must attend our behaviors. There is a reason for everything but often does not notice it. If our expectations are not realized, we get nervous or angry. I notice that I often do similarly. My boyfriend immediately does not respond to my messages or not call and I would sulk and get angry but I know that you are working. I react, so I do not realize my expectations. For example we will meet on Friday and he will not come because he will need to go somewhere else, and I am angry, crying because my expectation did not come true. I will now behave more carefully, I will listen to him and I will behave better understanding. Finally I also apologize to him because of my behaviors.

EDUCATION

When I heard saying the teacher I was shocked. We do not give inert idea for children because we put down students' thinkig. We guide creativity for the development of children. First teacher try to impose information but the second teacher is right because he/she wants to develop creativity of children. Memorization is not true education because students are used to ready information and they do not develop themselves. We only guide them. In the school my teachers gave me inert idea and I used to memorization education and ready information because they teached me this. I am trying to change my opinion and teachers should avoid rote education to be helpful to children. I am in difficulty in university and I do not want other children to live. Teachers direct that student encouraged to think.

WEEKEND

On Saturday I met with Aylin (in front) who is my high school friend. We rendezvous in Bakırköy train station and went to Zeytin Dalı café. She looks very upset. Her boyfriend does not understand her. When she was making account of problems, I remembered my teacher who gives information by perception in human relations and communication lesson. We impress our opinions people’s perception. When I said this thinking, my friend granted me right. Aylin noticed that her boyfriend had settled to talk with her perception of fear. There was no need to fear anything because he loves her.
After Aylin relaxed a little more, we went to capacity to meet with Selin who is our high school friend. We sat together in one place after dinner and talked. While we were talking, Selin strike upon an idea and we went to look engagement dress. There were many beautiful dresses and I tried one. I tried one and my friends admired me too but it is very expensive. We looked round other shops and Selin tried another one. We moved just for fun after I come home. I had a good day because I noticed that I learned how useful the information in school.